The cat is an unpredictable animal. As much as he can be an adorable little ball of affection, with whom you can spend peaceful moments, sitting on the couch with him snuggled up on your lap purring, he can sometimes scratch you or bite you violently, without you being able to understand the reason. But why can a cat be so aggressive? And most importantly, how do you react to this behavior? All the answers can be found in this article.
Identifying the origins of the aggression, and how to react?
A cat will never show aggression without any reason. Although the causes can be various, it is important in the case of a cat that shows aggression to identify the cause of the aggression, because it can come from a more or less important malaise to be treated, or from a simple education problem.
The cat, a nervous animal
Let's talk about a typical situation. You are sitting on your couch, your cat is on your lap and you are petting him. From your point of view, you're having what you think is a nice, relaxing time, until he starts violently scratching your hand, biting you, even spitting.
Even though it may seem like it, this aggression doesn't come from nowhere. Indeed, the cat is a very nervous animal, and this in the physiological sense. You may have been petting your cat for a while and touched him in an area he didn't like. These areas are usually along his spine, as well as on his tail, which are very nervous areas. But every cat may not enjoy being touched in a particular area. Some cats, for example, love to have their bellies scratched, while others will hate it.
To learn how to spot and anticipate these attacks, all you have to do is pay attention. Before scratching you, your cat will most likely have sent you signals that you didn't notice, so he won't have felt he had any choice but to scratch you to make you stop. So stop touching him if he sends you these signals:
- when he pushes his hand away from you with his paw, this is a more than obvious sign that your petting is bothering him and that you should stop.
- when he wags his tail. Indeed, some people make the amalgam with the dogs, which wag their tail when they are happy. For the cat, it's the opposite, if he wags his tail it's because he is disturbed or that something displeases him.
- If you feel your cat stiffen, especially in his back legs, it is because he is not happy. At best, she's about to leave, at worst, she's about to scratch you.
- If your cat's ears stick out forward or to the side, something is bothering him because a relaxed cat will tend to "drop" his ears.
Poor weaning
A kitten doesn't need to stay with her mother for three months for nothing. Although food weaning (the time when she stops suckling her mother and starts eating kibble) ends at two months, behavioral weaning is not complete. Thus, a cat taken away from his mother too early can sometimes show aggressiveness because he will not have learned to regulate his aggressiveness. In short, it will simply lack education.
For these cats, you will have to be patient and educate them yourself. When he attacks you, tell him "no" in a loud voice, to impress him. He should understand little by little that this aggression is a bad thing.
If you have too much trouble regulating his aggressiveness, you can also call a behaviorist.
Bad habits
Some cats become aggressive without realizing it, because for them it's just a game. Indeed, if playing with a kitten by making him attack his hand or his foot doesn't hurt and can be rather cute, it will be much less pleasant to do the same thing once he's an adult, when his fangs and claws will have become bigger and stronger.
So you should avoid getting a kitten used to playing with your body, because when she's an adult, she'll think it's play, too, and what you'll think is aggression will be just an attempt at play, just like when she was a kitten.
To avoid this, get your kitten used to playing with toys. Fishing rods with a feather on the end, a ball or a simple piece of string, it doesn't matter as long as she equates the play with a toy rather than a part of your body.
Boredom, tantrums and frustration
If a cat is not stimulated enough, it may become aggressive simply to expend its energy, just as a human will go to the gym to let off steam. If you're away from home a lot, and there are no toys or activities in your home, your cat may attack you on the calf, as if it were shouting "I'm bored!
Other cats can be very "immature" in some ways. Just as a child would whimper for a piece of candy, a cat can whimper for its food. It will start by meowing at you for long minutes, and some may even bite and scratch. Often, this problem is related to a weaning problem.
Finally, a cat may behave in the same way if you don't take enough care of him. He will try anything to get contact with you, and if that doesn't work, he'll go so far as to bite or scratch you. In this case, consider spending more time with him, making him play or simply cuddling him.
Trauma
Some cats who have been through traumatic experiences may become aggressive if a situation similar to their trauma occurs.
For example, if your cat has been in a violent relationship, which may even backfire on him, a simple argument may cause him to panic by reminding him of the trauma, and he may become violent for fear of reliving it.
In this kind of case, it will be necessary on your side to reassure him, by speaking to him in a soft voice and by caressing him if he accepts it (and only if he wants it well, it is never necessary to force a frightened cat), and possibly to consult a behaviorist if ever this reaction is repeated too often
A physical suffering
Cats are animals that do not communicate their suffering. If your cat spits, scratches or even bites you when you touch it in a specific area, it may be suffering. It could be osteoarthritis or a skin problem, for example.
In any case, do not hesitate to consult a veterinarian.
A very advanced age
Old age sometimes brings its share of misery. If in humans, some people who have reached a very advanced age can have mental deficiencies, sometimes even going as far as violence, it can unfortunately happen to our feline companions.
It is quite rare that this happens, but a cat can become very aggressive almost overnight, because certain neural connections are no longer made due to old age. He may simply not recognize you anymore and therefore be afraid of you, or he may simply have lost his mind. Unfortunately, there are no real solutions in these cases. You will just have to be patient with him, be gentle and kind, and have him consult a veterinarian, as he will certainly need care.
You now know how to recognize the roots of a cat aggression, and how to act accordingly. Remember that a cat is never aggressive by chance, you should always look for the origin, and never respond with violence, it would only make things worse.